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The Automation Playbook

What this build is for

Automation is for the moments that are lost because nobody replied in time. Not the moments nobody cares about: the ones everyone cares about, but nobody owns at five on a Friday.

The classic evidence is about speed. An audit of more than 2,000 US companies, published in the Harvard Business Review, found that firms which replied to an online enquiry within an hour were nearly seven times as likely to have a meaningful conversation with the buyer as firms that replied even an hour later (HBR). Speed matters most where a buyer is waiting, and in a committee sale, someone almost always is: procurement waiting for the insurance certificate, the plant manager waiting to know what to have ready, the improvement lead waiting for the data request.

So the job isn't "automate marketing". It's narrower and more useful: notice the moment, send what that person needs, and hand anything that matters to a named human. Automate the noticing, not the talking.

The Relationship category's nods live here: CRM (the record every flow reads from and writes to) and SMS and chat (two more ways a flow can reach someone), each with a short section below.

The footprint, and what it reads from the chain

In Kestrel's map, automation leads 4 cells and 5 moments, all in the gap between "yes" and the first day on the floor, plus the weeks that follow:

MomentWhoTheir question
Buying (2: planned and urgent)Procurement"Site inductions, payment terms and data handling?"
BuyingPlant manager"What do we need ready before they arrive?"
BuyingImprovement lead"What data do they need from us before week one?"
DeliveryPlant manager"What do my people need to do this week?"

It supports nine more cells, where another build leads but a timely reply decides whether the moment holds: procurement's supplier-list and safety checks, the COO's and investor's start dates, the COO's and finance director's progress and savings updates, the COO's programme decision, the finance director's look at the accounts, and procurement's re-engagement.

What it reads, and never rewrites:

FromIt takes
Where you standWhich moments each flow serves, and each chooser's question in their words
Sales StrategyThe motion steps and routing: who owns the account at each step, and when a human must take over
CredentialsThe documents flows send (insurance, safety, terms), each one signed and current
The pitchWeek zero, the start dates, the deal map's people and roles
EmailThe messages flows send, written once and reused
IdentityThe voice every automated message speaks in

Its slice of the Score, and its own audit

Automation's part of the Selectability Score is mostly Bought (did the step run without a stall?) and Answered (did the person get what they needed, when they needed it?).

Kestrel today, the 5 moments automation leadsAnsweredBelievedPreferredBoughtMoment score
Procurement · buying3545504043
Plant manager · buying5560706062
Improvement lead · buying5055655557
Plant manager · delivery8080857581

These are small moments in points: together they earn 1.7 of Kestrel's 18 and lose 1.3. Their weight is in what they protect. A deal that stalls in procurement, or a review that starts a week late, damages the moments after it: the COO's confidence, the finance director's savings date, the reference the client might give.

The audit. List every hand-off in the motion, who does it today, and how long it takes.

Hand-offWho does it todayHow longWhat it costs
Reply to a website enquiryWhichever partner sees the inboxMedian 26 hoursEnquiries that went cold before the first call
Procurement's documents (insurance, safety, terms)An office manager, by hand, from a shared driveMedian 4 working daysContracts signed a week after the verbal yes
The data request before week oneThe lead engineer, from memorySent the week before the start, or not at all3 of 9 reviews last year started late, waiting for data
The weekly update during the reviewEach engineer, in their own formatSome weeks, not othersThe COO hearing progress second-hand
The 90-day savings checkNobodyNeverSavings confirmed only when a client volunteered it, as two did

The CRM holds contacts, not moments: nothing in it knows that a deal has reached week zero, so nothing fires.

Step 1: the shape, the systems map

For automation, the shape is the systems map: every system that holds a fact about a buyer, every event it can notice, and every way it can reach someone. You can't automate a moment no system can see.

SystemWhat it knowsEvents it can noticeKestrel today
CRMPeople, accounts, deal stage, who owns the accountA deal moves stage; a new contact joins an account; no contact for N daysHas contacts; deal stages not kept
Website and formsWho asked what, from which pageA form sent; a kit downloaded; a return visit from a known accountA contact form to a shared inbox
EmailWhat was sent, opened, replied toA reply; no reply after N daysPartners' own inboxes
CalendarMeetings bookedA fit call booked; a start date setPartners' own calendars
Document storeThe signed claims, insurance, safety, terms, templatesA document expires; a new version is signedA shared drive, unversioned
E-signatureContracts out and signedA contract signedContracts signed on paper and scanned
Delivery trackerThe review's week, tasks, findingsA week ends; a finding is logged; a task is lateEach engineer's spreadsheet
Finance systemInvoices, paymentsAn invoice paid; a payment lateAccounts package, not connected
SMS and chat (nod)Short messages to people on the floorA message sent or answeredNot used

The canon question here is simple: what do buyers in the category already expect to happen automatically? For B2B services, three things: an instant acknowledgement with a real next step, documents on request without a wait, and a calendar link instead of email tennis. Kestrel has none of the three.

The CRM, as a nod. The CRM isn't a build; it's the memory every flow reads from and writes to. Its only rule in this playbook: every moment that matters must be a field or a stage someone can see. If "week zero" isn't a stage, nothing can fire on it.

Step 2: coverage, one trigger per moment lost for lack of a timely reply

The coverage unit is a trigger: an event a system can notice, tied to a moment where someone is waiting. For each of the 14 cells automation leads or supports, write four things: who is waiting, for what, how long they'll wait before it costs you, and what the system can see.

MomentWho's waiting, for whatHow long before it costsWhat the system can see
Website enquiry (feeds every early moment)Whoever asked: a reply with a real next stepAn hourForm sent
Procurement · comparing and checkingProcurement: insurance, safety record, supplier-list formsTwo daysRequest on the procurement page; deal at proposal
COO and investor · buyingA start dateA day after the verbal yesDeal moves to verbal yes
Procurement · buying (planned and urgent)Site inductions, payment terms, data handlingTwo days; the same day if urgentContract sent
Plant manager · buyingWhat to have readyTwo weeks before the startStart date set
Improvement lead · buyingThe data requestTwo weeks before the startStart date set
Plant manager · deliveryThis week's tasks for their peopleMonday morning, every weekWeek begins in the delivery tracker
COO · deliveryProgress and findingsFriday, every weekWeek ends; findings logged
Finance director · delivery and extendSavings counted, then confirmed in the accountsEnd of the review; then 90 days onReview closed; 90 days pass
COO · extendThe programme decision, with the results30 days after the reviewResults confirmed
Procurement · re-engagingA route without a new tenderWhen the next review is discussedA new opportunity on an existing account

That's 11 triggers. Each one names a person and a moment; none is "nurture".

Step 3: gaps, biases and jobs

Hold the audit against the 11 triggers. Each one nothing fires on today is a gap; each gap becomes a job.

MomentStageBiasThe job
Any enquiryBoughtA hard choice stallsReply within the hour, with a calendar link for the fit call and one page that answers the question they asked
Procurement · checkingBelievedWe follow othersSend the current, signed insurance and safety pack the moment it's asked for, from the document store, never from someone's inbox
Procurement · buyingBoughtLosses loom largerWhen the contract goes out, send site-induction, payment and data-handling answers with it, so procurement doesn't have to ask
COO · buyingBoughtLosses loom largerOn the verbal yes, confirm the start date within a day, and alert the partner if it isn't set
Plant manager · buyingAnsweredA hard choice stallsTwo weeks before the start, the week-zero checklist, in the plant manager's language
Improvement lead · buyingAnsweredLosses loom largerTwo weeks before the start, the data request, with what each item is for and who will see it
Plant manager · deliveryAnsweredA hard choice stallsEvery Monday, this week's tasks for their people, short enough to read on the floor; by SMS if they prefer
COO · deliveryBelievedWe follow othersEvery Friday, the week's findings, from the delivery tracker, in one format
Finance director · extendBelievedWe follow othersAt 90 days, ask the finance director to confirm the savings; turn a yes into a signed case
Procurement · re-engagingBoughtA hard choice stallsWhen a new opportunity opens on an existing account, send the framework terms first

Two rules come out of the jobs. Every flow hands to a named person when the buyer replies with anything but a yes. And nothing is sent that a person wouldn't sign: the documents come from Credentials, the words from the Email build.

Step 4: reconcile, the automation plan

Group the triggers into flows: a chain of steps that starts on one event and ends with a person, a document or a decision. This is the automation build's equivalent of a sitemap.

FlowStarts whenTriggers it carriesEnds withSignalsPriority
Enquiry responseA form is sent1A fit call booked, or the partner toldCanon, coverageP1
Procurement packProcurement asks, or the deal reaches proposal2Documents received; procurement's questions to a personCanon, coverageP1
Verbal yes to start dateThe deal moves to verbal yes2A start date in the calendar, the contract out with the procurement answersCoverage, strategyP1
Week zeroA start date is set2Checklist and data request confirmed by the plant manager and improvement leadCoverage, strategyP1
Savings confirmation90 days after the review closes1The finance director's confirmation, turned into a signed caseCoverage, strategyP1
Review rhythmEach week of the review2Monday tasks read; Friday findings sentCoverageP2
Programme decision30 days after results1A meeting with the COO, or a reason why notCoverageP2
Re-engagementA new opportunity on an existing account1Framework terms sent; the partner owns itCoverageP3

8 flows, 11 triggers. Every lead moment has a flow; every flow ends with a person or a confirmed fact. The savings confirmation is P1 for a reason the footprint doesn't show: it's where the proof for every other build comes from.

Rejected, with reasons:

  • Lead scoring. No moment asks for it. With 31 enquiries a year, the partners can read every one.
  • A drip "nurture" sequence. It answers no question a buyer is waiting on. Newsletters belong to Email, sent because there's something worth reading.
  • A chatbot answering technical questions. A wrong answer about a plant is worse than a slow one. Chat, as a nod, routes to a person and books calls.
  • Automatically sent proposals. The proposal is the pitch's job, written for the people in the room.

The anatomy library

Every flow is built from four parts, and each part has a standard shape.

PartWhat it holds, in orderRule
The triggerThe system · the event · the conditions (account, stage, role) · what it must not fire onOne event, one moment. If it needs three conditions to be right, the CRM stage is wrong
The messageWho it's to · their question, answered in the first line · the one thing they need · who to reply to, by nameWritten once in the Email build; never written inside the flow tool
The handoverWhen a person takes over · who · how they're told · by whenAny reply that isn't a plain yes goes to a person within a working day
The guardrailWhat the flow must never do · the stop condition · who can switch it offEvery flow has an off switch and an owner

And three shapes of flow cover almost everything Kestrel needs:

Flow shapeKestrel's flowsSteps
Acknowledge and routeEnquiry response, re-engagementReply at once · route to the owner · remind the owner if nothing happens
PrepareProcurement pack, verbal yes to start date, week zeroSend what's needed · confirm it arrived · chase once · hand to a person
Rhythm and checkReview rhythm, savings confirmation, programme decisionSend on the date · ask one question · record the answer · act on it

SMS and chat, as a nod. Both are just other ways for a message to reach someone. Use SMS where people don't sit at a desk: Kestrel's Monday tasks reach line leads on the floor by text, with their permission. Use chat on the website only to book a call or route a question to a named person, never to answer about a plant.

Briefs: the flow brief, then a brief for every step

A flow is briefed like a page: one brief for the whole, then one for each step, because each step serves one person at one moment.

The flow brief for Kestrel's savings confirmation:

FLOW Savings confirmation
STARTS WHEN 90 days after a review is marked closed in the delivery
tracker
MOMENTS Finance director · extend: "Are the savings showing in the
accounts?"
               Feeds: every build's proof (Credentials: confirmed cases)
PEOPLE The client's finance director; Kestrel's lead engineer; the
head of delivery
ENDS WITH The finance director's confirmation in writing, or a call
booked to
               understand why the savings aren't showing
OWNER Head of delivery
OFF SWITCH Head of delivery; stops automatically if the client is in
dispute
MEASURE Share of closed reviews with savings confirmed within 120 days

Then each step gets its own brief:

STEP 2: the confirmation request
JOB Believed · finance director · extend · we follow others
TO The client's finance director, from the lead engineer by name
THEIR QUESTION "Are the savings showing in the accounts?"
THE ONE THING Confirm or correct the figure in one reply
MESSAGE From the Email build: "90-day check", filled from the delivery
tracker
HANDOVER Any reply but a yes goes to the lead engineer within a working
day
GUARDRAIL Never sent if the review's final findings weren't accepted

The flow check. Walk the flow as each person it touches, on a real date. Would they know why they got each message, what to do, and who to ask? Then walk it as the person who owns it: on the day it misfires, how would you know?

The finished example: Kestrel's week-zero flow, written in full

Week zero is where Kestrel lost three starts last year. The flow covers three of automation's five lead moments: the plant manager's and improvement lead's "what do you need before you arrive?", and procurement's site-induction questions. Here it is for Hartwell Plastics, whose review starts on 3 November. Hartwell and its people are invented.

The trigger. The deal moves to "start date set" in the CRM, with a date at least 10 working days away. It does not fire if the contract is unsigned, or if the start is in less than five days (the partner calls instead).

Day 0, the same hour. To the plant manager, Dave Okafor, from Kestrel's lead engineer, Priya Raman:

  • Subject: Hartwell review, starting 3 November: what we'll need from your team
  • Dave, we start on your floor on Monday 3 November. Here's everything we'll need, so nothing waits on us or on you.
  • From your team, week one: two hours a day of your time; one hour a shift from each line lead on lines 2 and 4; access to the floor on every shift. Before we arrive: a site induction booked for 8am on 3 November; two hi-vis vests and site passes; a desk near the lines. What we won't need: anyone taken off the line, or any change to your schedule in week one.
  • Reply with a yes, or with anything that doesn't work. If it's easier to talk, my number's below. Priya Raman, lead engineer, Kestrel Advisory

Day 0, the same hour. To the improvement lead, Sam Ito: the data request, with a line on each item saying what it's for and who will see it. Scrap logs for lines 2 and 4 since January; the last three months of downtime records; energy readings by line if they exist. "If any of this doesn't exist, that's a finding, not a problem. Tell us and we'll measure it on site."

Day 0. To procurement: the site-induction form, the insurance certificate and safety record (both current, from the document store), and the data-handling note. No one asks for them, because they've already arrived.

Day 3, if no reply from the plant manager. One reminder, shorter. Day 5, still nothing: Priya is told, and calls. The flow never chases twice.

Day 5, if the data hasn't arrived. Priya calls Sam. Not a reminder email: a call, because missing data is the usual reason a start slips.

Day 8. The COO, Lena Marsh, gets one line: "Week zero is on track: your plant manager and improvement lead have everything they need, and the induction is booked." Or, if not: what's missing, and who's on it.

The guardrail. If anyone at Hartwell replies with a question, the flow stops for that person and Priya takes over. If the start date moves, every step re-dates itself; nobody gets the old date.

What to notice. Each message answers the reader's own question in its first line, says what they won't have to do, and comes from a named person. The flow makes two decisions a busy team gets wrong: it chases once, then hands to a human; and it tells the COO before the COO has to ask. It's up to five messages and two phone calls, for one start. Kestrel starts nine reviews a year.

Templates

The trigger inventory (one row per trigger; the build's single list)

IDMoment (chooser · step)Who's waiting, for whatHow long before it costsSystem and eventFlowLive?

The flow brief

FLOW [name]
STARTS WHEN [system · event · conditions]
NEVER FIRES [when it must not run]
MOMENTS [chooser · step, and what each is waiting for]
PEOPLE [everyone it touches, and the owner]
ENDS WITH [a person, a document or a confirmed fact]
OFF SWITCH [who, and the automatic stop conditions]
MEASURE [the stage it protects, and how you'll see it]

The step brief

STEP [number and name] WHEN [day or event]
JOB [stage · chooser · step · bias]
TO / FROM [a named person, to a named person]
THEIR QUESTION [answered in the first line]
THE ONE THING [what they need to do, or need to know]
HANDOVER [what sends it to a human, and to whom]
GUARDRAIL [what this step must never do]

The flow log (one row per flow per month)

FlowFiredCompleted without a personHanded to a personMisfiredTime from trigger to endStage it protects, this month

In the campaign plan

Campaigns create waiting. A benchmark launch brings in downloads; a board-season push brings in fit calls; a round table brings in owners who want a follow-up the same week. Automation's rule: before a campaign starts, every response it invites has a flow, and every flow has an owner who knows the date.

Kestrel campaignWhat it invitesThe flow that must be ready
The annual benchmarkReport downloads and questions about the figuresEnquiry response, with a reply that answers the reader's sector and problem; routed to a partner for anyone asking about a review
"Before you buy another line"Fit-call requests from COOsEnquiry response, with the calendar link and the equipment comparison
Board seasonBusiness case kit downloadsA one-line offer from a partner to go through the kit with their numbers, within a day
Owners' round tableOwners who want to talkA personal follow-up from the speaker within 48 hours, set as a task, never sent automatically

The last row is deliberate. Some moments are too personal to automate: the flow's job there is to make sure the person remembers.

Running it

Who owns what. At Kestrel, the office manager owns the systems map and the flow log. Each flow has an owner who would notice if it stopped: the managing partner owns enquiry response and re-engagement; the head of delivery owns week zero, the review rhythm and savings confirmation; the finance lead owns the procurement pack. A flow without an owner is switched off.

WhenWhat happens
DailyHandovers read: every reply a flow passed to a person has an answer within a working day
MonthlyThe flow log: what fired, what completed, what was handed over, what misfired
QuarterlyEach flow walked end to end as the buyer, on a test account; messages checked against the claims register and the voice
When a document expiresInsurance, safety, terms: the document store flags it 30 days before, and the procurement pack stops until it's replaced
When the motion changesThe CRM stages first, then every flow that reads them

The failure to plan for. Automation fails quietly. A broken flow sends nothing, and nobody notices for months. So every flow needs a heartbeat: a monthly count that would look wrong if it stopped. Kestrel's week-zero flow should fire about once a month; two months at zero means either no reviews started, or the flow is broken. Someone should know which.

Common mistakes

The mistakeThe stage it breaksThe bias it ignoresWhat it would do at KestrelInstead
Automating the talking, not the noticingBelievedWe follow othersA bot answering "will this work in our plant?"Flows notice and route; people answer
Nurture for its own sakeKnown, worn downGood enough beats bestA weekly drip to every enquiry, until they unsubscribeSend only what someone is waiting for
No handoverBoughtLosses loom largerProcurement's question answered by the next scheduled emailAny reply but a yes goes to a named person within a day
Chasing until they give upPreferredLosses loom largerFive reminders about the data requestChase once; then a person calls
Sending stale documentsBelievedFamiliar feels safeLast year's insurance certificate, sent automaticallyDocuments from the store, with expiry dates that stop the flow
Messages written inside the toolBelievedFamiliar feels safeA flow's email that contradicts the proposal's termsEvery message from the Email build, every claim from Credentials
Stages nobody keepsAll, unseenA hard choice stallsWeek zero never fires because nobody moves the deal stageFew stages, each one a moment, kept by the deal owner
No off switch, no ownerAllThe planning fallacyA flow still emailing a client who left in disputeEvery flow has an owner and stop conditions
Judging by volumeAll, unseenGood enough beats best"2,000 automated emails sent this quarter"Judge by the stage each flow protects

The bias to watch in the team: automation bias, the habit of trusting what a system did because a system did it. A flow that ran isn't a buyer who was served. Read the handovers.

The business check and the measures

Before any flow is switched on:

  • Revenue: the P1 flows protect the deals already won and the proof for the next ones. If the team can build only two, build week zero and savings confirmation.
  • One truth: every message's facts come from Credentials, every document from the store. A flow that states a price, a date or a term the proposal doesn't is switched off until it matches.
  • Consent: contacts are messaged only for the deal or review they're part of. Newsletters need their own permission, kept by the Email build.
  • Capacity: each handover needs a person within a day. If nobody can answer procurement's questions within a day, don't automate the request; fix the capacity first.
  • The systems can see it: every trigger in the plan has a system and an event. Where none exists, the first job is a CRM stage or a field, not a flow.

The measures. Each flow is judged by the stage it protects, never by how much it sends.

MeasureWhat it tells youStage
Median time from enquiry to first replyWhether buyers wait (Kestrel: 26 hours today)Bought
Days from verbal yes to signed contractWhether procurement waits (today: a week or more)Bought
Reviews that start on the agreed dateWhether week zero works (today: 6 of 9)Bought
Plant managers who confirm the checklist before the startWhether the floor is readyAnswered
Closed reviews with savings confirmed within 120 daysWhether proof is being made (today: 2 of 9)Believed
Handovers answered within a working dayWhether the people behind the flows are therePreferred
Flows that misfired this monthWhether the system can be trustedAll

The Loop for this build

Each quarter the Loop (step 11) reads the flow log beside the Score's deal moments, and asks: did the people who were waiting stop waiting, and did the moments after them hold?

What the Loop findsWhat it meansWhat changes
A flow completes, but the stage it protects doesn't moveThe message is on time but doesn't answer the questionRewrite the message with the Email build; check the reader's question
Most runs end in a handoverThe flow is asking people to do something unclear, or the timing is wrongSimplify the one thing it asks; move the date
Handovers aren't answered within a dayCapacity, not automationFix who owns the handovers before adding flows
A flow never firesNo such moments, or a stage nobody keepsCheck the CRM; if the moment is real, fix the stage
Savings confirmations riseNew proof for every buildCredentials signs each confirmed case; the website, the pitch and PR use it

What Kestrel's first year would look for. Reply times down from 26 hours to under one in the first month, because that flow is simple. Starts on the agreed date rising from six in nine to every one. And, by the year's end, savings confirmed for most closed reviews: the change no other build can make, because it turns every finished review into a case the finance directors at the next board will believe.

Shapes by business type

The moments where someone waits change with the business, and so do the flows that matter most:

Business typeTypical modeThe flows that usually matter most
B2B professional servicesCommittee or owner-ledEnquiry response, procurement pack, week zero, results confirmation
B2B softwareCommitteeTrial activation, usage-based nudges to a named rep, security review pack, renewal warnings
Considered consumer (finance, health, education)Considered personalApplication progress, document requests, cooling-off reminders, a person on call for the hard questions
EcommerceQuick choice or habitualOrder and delivery updates, back-in-stock, abandoned basket (once), replenishment reminders
Local servicesOwner-led or considered personalInstant quote acknowledgement, booking confirmations, the day-before reminder, review requests after the job
MarketplacesVaries on each sideSeller onboarding steps, first-sale prompts, buyer-seller response-time nudges, dispute routing

Feeling a bit overwhelmed?

You should be, a little. One firm: nine systems, 11 triggers, eight flows, each with a brief, a brief for every step, an owner, an off switch and a heartbeat, and a log that has to be read every month, because automation fails quietly. Most firms buy a tool, switch on a newsletter sequence, and wonder why procurement still waits a week for an insurance certificate.

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  • The moments behind every trigger. Your choosers, their steps and their questions, mapped from what's known about your brand, so every flow you build starts from a moment someone is waiting on.

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