Relationship
The Automation Playbook
What this build is for
Automation is for the moments that are lost because nobody replied in time. Not the moments nobody cares about: the ones everyone cares about, but nobody owns at five on a Friday.
The classic evidence is about speed. An audit of more than 2,000 US companies, published in the Harvard Business Review, found that firms which replied to an online enquiry within an hour were nearly seven times as likely to have a meaningful conversation with the buyer as firms that replied even an hour later (HBR). Speed matters most where a buyer is waiting, and in a committee sale, someone almost always is: procurement waiting for the insurance certificate, the plant manager waiting to know what to have ready, the improvement lead waiting for the data request.
So the job isn't "automate marketing". It's narrower and more useful: notice the moment, send what that person needs, and hand anything that matters to a named human. Automate the noticing, not the talking.
The Relationship category's nods live here: CRM (the record every flow reads from and writes to) and SMS and chat (two more ways a flow can reach someone), each with a short section below.
The footprint, and what it reads from the chain
In Kestrel's map, automation leads 4 cells and 5 moments, all in the gap between "yes" and the first day on the floor, plus the weeks that follow:
| Moment | Who | Their question |
|---|---|---|
| Buying (2: planned and urgent) | Procurement | "Site inductions, payment terms and data handling?" |
| Buying | Plant manager | "What do we need ready before they arrive?" |
| Buying | Improvement lead | "What data do they need from us before week one?" |
| Delivery | Plant manager | "What do my people need to do this week?" |
It supports nine more cells, where another build leads but a timely reply decides whether the moment holds: procurement's supplier-list and safety checks, the COO's and investor's start dates, the COO's and finance director's progress and savings updates, the COO's programme decision, the finance director's look at the accounts, and procurement's re-engagement.
What it reads, and never rewrites:
| From | It takes |
|---|---|
| Where you stand | Which moments each flow serves, and each chooser's question in their words |
| Sales Strategy | The motion steps and routing: who owns the account at each step, and when a human must take over |
| Credentials | The documents flows send (insurance, safety, terms), each one signed and current |
| The pitch | Week zero, the start dates, the deal map's people and roles |
| The messages flows send, written once and reused | |
| Identity | The voice every automated message speaks in |
Its slice of the Score, and its own audit
Automation's part of the Selectability Score is mostly Bought (did the step run without a stall?) and Answered (did the person get what they needed, when they needed it?).
| Kestrel today, the 5 moments automation leads | Answered | Believed | Preferred | Bought | Moment score |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Procurement · buying | 35 | 45 | 50 | 40 | 43 |
| Plant manager · buying | 55 | 60 | 70 | 60 | 62 |
| Improvement lead · buying | 50 | 55 | 65 | 55 | 57 |
| Plant manager · delivery | 80 | 80 | 85 | 75 | 81 |
These are small moments in points: together they earn 1.7 of Kestrel's 18 and lose 1.3. Their weight is in what they protect. A deal that stalls in procurement, or a review that starts a week late, damages the moments after it: the COO's confidence, the finance director's savings date, the reference the client might give.
The audit. List every hand-off in the motion, who does it today, and how long it takes.
| Hand-off | Who does it today | How long | What it costs |
|---|---|---|---|
| Reply to a website enquiry | Whichever partner sees the inbox | Median 26 hours | Enquiries that went cold before the first call |
| Procurement's documents (insurance, safety, terms) | An office manager, by hand, from a shared drive | Median 4 working days | Contracts signed a week after the verbal yes |
| The data request before week one | The lead engineer, from memory | Sent the week before the start, or not at all | 3 of 9 reviews last year started late, waiting for data |
| The weekly update during the review | Each engineer, in their own format | Some weeks, not others | The COO hearing progress second-hand |
| The 90-day savings check | Nobody | Never | Savings confirmed only when a client volunteered it, as two did |
The CRM holds contacts, not moments: nothing in it knows that a deal has reached week zero, so nothing fires.
Step 1: the shape, the systems map
For automation, the shape is the systems map: every system that holds a fact about a buyer, every event it can notice, and every way it can reach someone. You can't automate a moment no system can see.
| System | What it knows | Events it can notice | Kestrel today |
|---|---|---|---|
| CRM | People, accounts, deal stage, who owns the account | A deal moves stage; a new contact joins an account; no contact for N days | Has contacts; deal stages not kept |
| Website and forms | Who asked what, from which page | A form sent; a kit downloaded; a return visit from a known account | A contact form to a shared inbox |
| What was sent, opened, replied to | A reply; no reply after N days | Partners' own inboxes | |
| Calendar | Meetings booked | A fit call booked; a start date set | Partners' own calendars |
| Document store | The signed claims, insurance, safety, terms, templates | A document expires; a new version is signed | A shared drive, unversioned |
| E-signature | Contracts out and signed | A contract signed | Contracts signed on paper and scanned |
| Delivery tracker | The review's week, tasks, findings | A week ends; a finding is logged; a task is late | Each engineer's spreadsheet |
| Finance system | Invoices, payments | An invoice paid; a payment late | Accounts package, not connected |
| SMS and chat (nod) | Short messages to people on the floor | A message sent or answered | Not used |
The canon question here is simple: what do buyers in the category already expect to happen automatically? For B2B services, three things: an instant acknowledgement with a real next step, documents on request without a wait, and a calendar link instead of email tennis. Kestrel has none of the three.
The CRM, as a nod. The CRM isn't a build; it's the memory every flow reads from and writes to. Its only rule in this playbook: every moment that matters must be a field or a stage someone can see. If "week zero" isn't a stage, nothing can fire on it.
Step 2: coverage, one trigger per moment lost for lack of a timely reply
The coverage unit is a trigger: an event a system can notice, tied to a moment where someone is waiting. For each of the 14 cells automation leads or supports, write four things: who is waiting, for what, how long they'll wait before it costs you, and what the system can see.
| Moment | Who's waiting, for what | How long before it costs | What the system can see |
|---|---|---|---|
| Website enquiry (feeds every early moment) | Whoever asked: a reply with a real next step | An hour | Form sent |
| Procurement · comparing and checking | Procurement: insurance, safety record, supplier-list forms | Two days | Request on the procurement page; deal at proposal |
| COO and investor · buying | A start date | A day after the verbal yes | Deal moves to verbal yes |
| Procurement · buying (planned and urgent) | Site inductions, payment terms, data handling | Two days; the same day if urgent | Contract sent |
| Plant manager · buying | What to have ready | Two weeks before the start | Start date set |
| Improvement lead · buying | The data request | Two weeks before the start | Start date set |
| Plant manager · delivery | This week's tasks for their people | Monday morning, every week | Week begins in the delivery tracker |
| COO · delivery | Progress and findings | Friday, every week | Week ends; findings logged |
| Finance director · delivery and extend | Savings counted, then confirmed in the accounts | End of the review; then 90 days on | Review closed; 90 days pass |
| COO · extend | The programme decision, with the results | 30 days after the review | Results confirmed |
| Procurement · re-engaging | A route without a new tender | When the next review is discussed | A new opportunity on an existing account |
That's 11 triggers. Each one names a person and a moment; none is "nurture".
Step 3: gaps, biases and jobs
Hold the audit against the 11 triggers. Each one nothing fires on today is a gap; each gap becomes a job.
| Moment | Stage | Bias | The job |
|---|---|---|---|
| Any enquiry | Bought | A hard choice stalls | Reply within the hour, with a calendar link for the fit call and one page that answers the question they asked |
| Procurement · checking | Believed | We follow others | Send the current, signed insurance and safety pack the moment it's asked for, from the document store, never from someone's inbox |
| Procurement · buying | Bought | Losses loom larger | When the contract goes out, send site-induction, payment and data-handling answers with it, so procurement doesn't have to ask |
| COO · buying | Bought | Losses loom larger | On the verbal yes, confirm the start date within a day, and alert the partner if it isn't set |
| Plant manager · buying | Answered | A hard choice stalls | Two weeks before the start, the week-zero checklist, in the plant manager's language |
| Improvement lead · buying | Answered | Losses loom larger | Two weeks before the start, the data request, with what each item is for and who will see it |
| Plant manager · delivery | Answered | A hard choice stalls | Every Monday, this week's tasks for their people, short enough to read on the floor; by SMS if they prefer |
| COO · delivery | Believed | We follow others | Every Friday, the week's findings, from the delivery tracker, in one format |
| Finance director · extend | Believed | We follow others | At 90 days, ask the finance director to confirm the savings; turn a yes into a signed case |
| Procurement · re-engaging | Bought | A hard choice stalls | When a new opportunity opens on an existing account, send the framework terms first |
Two rules come out of the jobs. Every flow hands to a named person when the buyer replies with anything but a yes. And nothing is sent that a person wouldn't sign: the documents come from Credentials, the words from the Email build.
Step 4: reconcile, the automation plan
Group the triggers into flows: a chain of steps that starts on one event and ends with a person, a document or a decision. This is the automation build's equivalent of a sitemap.
| Flow | Starts when | Triggers it carries | Ends with | Signals | Priority |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Enquiry response | A form is sent | 1 | A fit call booked, or the partner told | Canon, coverage | P1 |
| Procurement pack | Procurement asks, or the deal reaches proposal | 2 | Documents received; procurement's questions to a person | Canon, coverage | P1 |
| Verbal yes to start date | The deal moves to verbal yes | 2 | A start date in the calendar, the contract out with the procurement answers | Coverage, strategy | P1 |
| Week zero | A start date is set | 2 | Checklist and data request confirmed by the plant manager and improvement lead | Coverage, strategy | P1 |
| Savings confirmation | 90 days after the review closes | 1 | The finance director's confirmation, turned into a signed case | Coverage, strategy | P1 |
| Review rhythm | Each week of the review | 2 | Monday tasks read; Friday findings sent | Coverage | P2 |
| Programme decision | 30 days after results | 1 | A meeting with the COO, or a reason why not | Coverage | P2 |
| Re-engagement | A new opportunity on an existing account | 1 | Framework terms sent; the partner owns it | Coverage | P3 |
8 flows, 11 triggers. Every lead moment has a flow; every flow ends with a person or a confirmed fact. The savings confirmation is P1 for a reason the footprint doesn't show: it's where the proof for every other build comes from.
Rejected, with reasons:
- Lead scoring. No moment asks for it. With 31 enquiries a year, the partners can read every one.
- A drip "nurture" sequence. It answers no question a buyer is waiting on. Newsletters belong to Email, sent because there's something worth reading.
- A chatbot answering technical questions. A wrong answer about a plant is worse than a slow one. Chat, as a nod, routes to a person and books calls.
- Automatically sent proposals. The proposal is the pitch's job, written for the people in the room.
The anatomy library
Every flow is built from four parts, and each part has a standard shape.
| Part | What it holds, in order | Rule |
|---|---|---|
| The trigger | The system · the event · the conditions (account, stage, role) · what it must not fire on | One event, one moment. If it needs three conditions to be right, the CRM stage is wrong |
| The message | Who it's to · their question, answered in the first line · the one thing they need · who to reply to, by name | Written once in the Email build; never written inside the flow tool |
| The handover | When a person takes over · who · how they're told · by when | Any reply that isn't a plain yes goes to a person within a working day |
| The guardrail | What the flow must never do · the stop condition · who can switch it off | Every flow has an off switch and an owner |
And three shapes of flow cover almost everything Kestrel needs:
| Flow shape | Kestrel's flows | Steps |
|---|---|---|
| Acknowledge and route | Enquiry response, re-engagement | Reply at once · route to the owner · remind the owner if nothing happens |
| Prepare | Procurement pack, verbal yes to start date, week zero | Send what's needed · confirm it arrived · chase once · hand to a person |
| Rhythm and check | Review rhythm, savings confirmation, programme decision | Send on the date · ask one question · record the answer · act on it |
SMS and chat, as a nod. Both are just other ways for a message to reach someone. Use SMS where people don't sit at a desk: Kestrel's Monday tasks reach line leads on the floor by text, with their permission. Use chat on the website only to book a call or route a question to a named person, never to answer about a plant.
Briefs: the flow brief, then a brief for every step
A flow is briefed like a page: one brief for the whole, then one for each step, because each step serves one person at one moment.
The flow brief for Kestrel's savings confirmation:
FLOW Savings confirmation
STARTS WHEN 90 days after a review is marked closed in the delivery
tracker
MOMENTS Finance director · extend: "Are the savings showing in the
accounts?"
Feeds: every build's proof (Credentials: confirmed cases)
PEOPLE The client's finance director; Kestrel's lead engineer; the
head of delivery
ENDS WITH The finance director's confirmation in writing, or a call
booked to
understand why the savings aren't showing
OWNER Head of delivery
OFF SWITCH Head of delivery; stops automatically if the client is in
dispute
MEASURE Share of closed reviews with savings confirmed within 120 daysThen each step gets its own brief:
STEP 2: the confirmation request JOB Believed · finance director · extend · we follow others TO The client's finance director, from the lead engineer by name THEIR QUESTION "Are the savings showing in the accounts?" THE ONE THING Confirm or correct the figure in one reply MESSAGE From the Email build: "90-day check", filled from the delivery tracker HANDOVER Any reply but a yes goes to the lead engineer within a working day GUARDRAIL Never sent if the review's final findings weren't accepted
The flow check. Walk the flow as each person it touches, on a real date. Would they know why they got each message, what to do, and who to ask? Then walk it as the person who owns it: on the day it misfires, how would you know?
The finished example: Kestrel's week-zero flow, written in full
Week zero is where Kestrel lost three starts last year. The flow covers three of automation's five lead moments: the plant manager's and improvement lead's "what do you need before you arrive?", and procurement's site-induction questions. Here it is for Hartwell Plastics, whose review starts on 3 November. Hartwell and its people are invented.
The trigger. The deal moves to "start date set" in the CRM, with a date at least 10 working days away. It does not fire if the contract is unsigned, or if the start is in less than five days (the partner calls instead).
Day 0, the same hour. To the plant manager, Dave Okafor, from Kestrel's lead engineer, Priya Raman:
- Subject: Hartwell review, starting 3 November: what we'll need from your team
- Dave, we start on your floor on Monday 3 November. Here's everything we'll need, so nothing waits on us or on you.
- From your team, week one: two hours a day of your time; one hour a shift from each line lead on lines 2 and 4; access to the floor on every shift. Before we arrive: a site induction booked for 8am on 3 November; two hi-vis vests and site passes; a desk near the lines. What we won't need: anyone taken off the line, or any change to your schedule in week one.
- Reply with a yes, or with anything that doesn't work. If it's easier to talk, my number's below. Priya Raman, lead engineer, Kestrel Advisory
Day 0, the same hour. To the improvement lead, Sam Ito: the data request, with a line on each item saying what it's for and who will see it. Scrap logs for lines 2 and 4 since January; the last three months of downtime records; energy readings by line if they exist. "If any of this doesn't exist, that's a finding, not a problem. Tell us and we'll measure it on site."
Day 0. To procurement: the site-induction form, the insurance certificate and safety record (both current, from the document store), and the data-handling note. No one asks for them, because they've already arrived.
Day 3, if no reply from the plant manager. One reminder, shorter. Day 5, still nothing: Priya is told, and calls. The flow never chases twice.
Day 5, if the data hasn't arrived. Priya calls Sam. Not a reminder email: a call, because missing data is the usual reason a start slips.
Day 8. The COO, Lena Marsh, gets one line: "Week zero is on track: your plant manager and improvement lead have everything they need, and the induction is booked." Or, if not: what's missing, and who's on it.
The guardrail. If anyone at Hartwell replies with a question, the flow stops for that person and Priya takes over. If the start date moves, every step re-dates itself; nobody gets the old date.
What to notice. Each message answers the reader's own question in its first line, says what they won't have to do, and comes from a named person. The flow makes two decisions a busy team gets wrong: it chases once, then hands to a human; and it tells the COO before the COO has to ask. It's up to five messages and two phone calls, for one start. Kestrel starts nine reviews a year.
Templates
The trigger inventory (one row per trigger; the build's single list)
| ID | Moment (chooser · step) | Who's waiting, for what | How long before it costs | System and event | Flow | Live? |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
The flow brief
FLOW [name] STARTS WHEN [system · event · conditions] NEVER FIRES [when it must not run] MOMENTS [chooser · step, and what each is waiting for] PEOPLE [everyone it touches, and the owner] ENDS WITH [a person, a document or a confirmed fact] OFF SWITCH [who, and the automatic stop conditions] MEASURE [the stage it protects, and how you'll see it]
The step brief
STEP [number and name] WHEN [day or event] JOB [stage · chooser · step · bias] TO / FROM [a named person, to a named person] THEIR QUESTION [answered in the first line] THE ONE THING [what they need to do, or need to know] HANDOVER [what sends it to a human, and to whom] GUARDRAIL [what this step must never do]
The flow log (one row per flow per month)
| Flow | Fired | Completed without a person | Handed to a person | Misfired | Time from trigger to end | Stage it protects, this month |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
In the campaign plan
Campaigns create waiting. A benchmark launch brings in downloads; a board-season push brings in fit calls; a round table brings in owners who want a follow-up the same week. Automation's rule: before a campaign starts, every response it invites has a flow, and every flow has an owner who knows the date.
| Kestrel campaign | What it invites | The flow that must be ready |
|---|---|---|
| The annual benchmark | Report downloads and questions about the figures | Enquiry response, with a reply that answers the reader's sector and problem; routed to a partner for anyone asking about a review |
| "Before you buy another line" | Fit-call requests from COOs | Enquiry response, with the calendar link and the equipment comparison |
| Board season | Business case kit downloads | A one-line offer from a partner to go through the kit with their numbers, within a day |
| Owners' round table | Owners who want to talk | A personal follow-up from the speaker within 48 hours, set as a task, never sent automatically |
The last row is deliberate. Some moments are too personal to automate: the flow's job there is to make sure the person remembers.
Running it
Who owns what. At Kestrel, the office manager owns the systems map and the flow log. Each flow has an owner who would notice if it stopped: the managing partner owns enquiry response and re-engagement; the head of delivery owns week zero, the review rhythm and savings confirmation; the finance lead owns the procurement pack. A flow without an owner is switched off.
| When | What happens |
|---|---|
| Daily | Handovers read: every reply a flow passed to a person has an answer within a working day |
| Monthly | The flow log: what fired, what completed, what was handed over, what misfired |
| Quarterly | Each flow walked end to end as the buyer, on a test account; messages checked against the claims register and the voice |
| When a document expires | Insurance, safety, terms: the document store flags it 30 days before, and the procurement pack stops until it's replaced |
| When the motion changes | The CRM stages first, then every flow that reads them |
The failure to plan for. Automation fails quietly. A broken flow sends nothing, and nobody notices for months. So every flow needs a heartbeat: a monthly count that would look wrong if it stopped. Kestrel's week-zero flow should fire about once a month; two months at zero means either no reviews started, or the flow is broken. Someone should know which.
Common mistakes
| The mistake | The stage it breaks | The bias it ignores | What it would do at Kestrel | Instead |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Automating the talking, not the noticing | Believed | We follow others | A bot answering "will this work in our plant?" | Flows notice and route; people answer |
| Nurture for its own sake | Known, worn down | Good enough beats best | A weekly drip to every enquiry, until they unsubscribe | Send only what someone is waiting for |
| No handover | Bought | Losses loom larger | Procurement's question answered by the next scheduled email | Any reply but a yes goes to a named person within a day |
| Chasing until they give up | Preferred | Losses loom larger | Five reminders about the data request | Chase once; then a person calls |
| Sending stale documents | Believed | Familiar feels safe | Last year's insurance certificate, sent automatically | Documents from the store, with expiry dates that stop the flow |
| Messages written inside the tool | Believed | Familiar feels safe | A flow's email that contradicts the proposal's terms | Every message from the Email build, every claim from Credentials |
| Stages nobody keeps | All, unseen | A hard choice stalls | Week zero never fires because nobody moves the deal stage | Few stages, each one a moment, kept by the deal owner |
| No off switch, no owner | All | The planning fallacy | A flow still emailing a client who left in dispute | Every flow has an owner and stop conditions |
| Judging by volume | All, unseen | Good enough beats best | "2,000 automated emails sent this quarter" | Judge by the stage each flow protects |
The bias to watch in the team: automation bias, the habit of trusting what a system did because a system did it. A flow that ran isn't a buyer who was served. Read the handovers.
The business check and the measures
Before any flow is switched on:
- Revenue: the P1 flows protect the deals already won and the proof for the next ones. If the team can build only two, build week zero and savings confirmation.
- One truth: every message's facts come from Credentials, every document from the store. A flow that states a price, a date or a term the proposal doesn't is switched off until it matches.
- Consent: contacts are messaged only for the deal or review they're part of. Newsletters need their own permission, kept by the Email build.
- Capacity: each handover needs a person within a day. If nobody can answer procurement's questions within a day, don't automate the request; fix the capacity first.
- The systems can see it: every trigger in the plan has a system and an event. Where none exists, the first job is a CRM stage or a field, not a flow.
The measures. Each flow is judged by the stage it protects, never by how much it sends.
| Measure | What it tells you | Stage |
|---|---|---|
| Median time from enquiry to first reply | Whether buyers wait (Kestrel: 26 hours today) | Bought |
| Days from verbal yes to signed contract | Whether procurement waits (today: a week or more) | Bought |
| Reviews that start on the agreed date | Whether week zero works (today: 6 of 9) | Bought |
| Plant managers who confirm the checklist before the start | Whether the floor is ready | Answered |
| Closed reviews with savings confirmed within 120 days | Whether proof is being made (today: 2 of 9) | Believed |
| Handovers answered within a working day | Whether the people behind the flows are there | Preferred |
| Flows that misfired this month | Whether the system can be trusted | All |
The Loop for this build
Each quarter the Loop (step 11) reads the flow log beside the Score's deal moments, and asks: did the people who were waiting stop waiting, and did the moments after them hold?
| What the Loop finds | What it means | What changes |
|---|---|---|
| A flow completes, but the stage it protects doesn't move | The message is on time but doesn't answer the question | Rewrite the message with the Email build; check the reader's question |
| Most runs end in a handover | The flow is asking people to do something unclear, or the timing is wrong | Simplify the one thing it asks; move the date |
| Handovers aren't answered within a day | Capacity, not automation | Fix who owns the handovers before adding flows |
| A flow never fires | No such moments, or a stage nobody keeps | Check the CRM; if the moment is real, fix the stage |
| Savings confirmations rise | New proof for every build | Credentials signs each confirmed case; the website, the pitch and PR use it |
What Kestrel's first year would look for. Reply times down from 26 hours to under one in the first month, because that flow is simple. Starts on the agreed date rising from six in nine to every one. And, by the year's end, savings confirmed for most closed reviews: the change no other build can make, because it turns every finished review into a case the finance directors at the next board will believe.
Shapes by business type
The moments where someone waits change with the business, and so do the flows that matter most:
| Business type | Typical mode | The flows that usually matter most |
|---|---|---|
| B2B professional services | Committee or owner-led | Enquiry response, procurement pack, week zero, results confirmation |
| B2B software | Committee | Trial activation, usage-based nudges to a named rep, security review pack, renewal warnings |
| Considered consumer (finance, health, education) | Considered personal | Application progress, document requests, cooling-off reminders, a person on call for the hard questions |
| Ecommerce | Quick choice or habitual | Order and delivery updates, back-in-stock, abandoned basket (once), replenishment reminders |
| Local services | Owner-led or considered personal | Instant quote acknowledgement, booking confirmations, the day-before reminder, review requests after the job |
| Marketplaces | Varies on each side | Seller onboarding steps, first-sale prompts, buyer-seller response-time nudges, dispute routing |
Feeling a bit overwhelmed?
You should be, a little. One firm: nine systems, 11 triggers, eight flows, each with a brief, a brief for every step, an owner, an off switch and a heartbeat, and a log that has to be read every month, because automation fails quietly. Most firms buy a tool, switch on a newsletter sequence, and wonder why procurement still waits a week for an insurance certificate.
RocMode does part of the heavy lifting:
- From a signed brief to tasks, by channel. When you sign a campaign brief in RocMode, it breaks the work into tasks for each channel: email, social, ads, landing page and pitch deck.
- The moments behind every trigger. Your choosers, their steps and their questions, mapped from what's known about your brand, so every flow you build starts from a moment someone is waiting on.





